Abuse is Abuse and Let us Not sugar coat .Are you aware that most abuse in intimate relationships is Non-Verbal and Non-Physical but just as dangerous?Examples of both is ,,icing “.
This is when one partners chooses to shut up and isolate themselves from their partner.This usually happens in confined spaces like the home and especially the bedroom.One partner denies the other their conjugal rights without an explanation and shrugs any advances without a discussion.
This “icing “behaviour is a psychological form of abuse It leaves the victim feeling confused,questioning their body shape and beauty and their mind creating all sorts of demeaning thoughts about themselves.
Are you a victim of this?First recognise it is not your fault that your partner chooses to act selfishly and childishly.You might want to seek help from a ,a professional marriage or partnership counsellor in the hope they might reveal what is the issue.Do not prolong this kind of behaviour to prevail.It will demean you and you end up have self-worth and lack of confidence issues that will affect your mental health.Seek help !Talk to someone
