FinancialForms of Abuse

Economic /Financial Domestic Abuse

A form of domestic violence abuse situation

Financial Dependence :It is one of the main reasons why an intimate partner remains for a long period in a violent abusive relationship. From the very beginning the victim might have had no interest to know how much their spouse earns.They might not even have access to his/her payslip or bank account,yet he/she has the same.The abuser is very secretive about matters money and very possessive about the victims earnings or spending to the last coin.TAKE HEED:THIS IS FINANCIAL ABUSE:THE ABUSER WILL BURN YOUR Hard Earned Money &Leave You in Poverty &Debts

Possible Reasons

  • The victim might be very insecure and  uneasy around money conversations.
  • Growing up beliefs could be that looking at receipts or noting expenditure implies a lack of trust,even theft .
  • The victim might be financially dependent. on their abusive partner.
  • They might be culturally inclined to the idea the man is the head of the family.credit or even open a business.

Financial Victimization

  • Forbidding the victim to work.
  • Employing the victim who works with no pay , in the majority of cases unregistered as a worker.The victim is  at a disadvantage in terms of pension and other employee benefits.
  • Putting a partner on an allowance that is so low and only enough for basics like sanitary pads.
  • Misuse of the victims personal documents and taking up loans or buying items on credit for example most common expensive mobile phones and betting.
  • Ruining the victims credit by not paying on time and not informing the victim until it is too late usually a court or imprisonment matter.
  • Withholding  money for basic necessities such as food,clothing,medications or fares.
  • Putting victim to shame through constant house eviction due to unpaid rents by the abuser.
  • Constant verbal abuses in the house requiring an account of every single purchase in the house.
  • Domestic violence is all about the abuser gaining power  and total control over their intimate  partner.controlling them fully.
  • Regardless ,of how highly placed a victim is in their job ,a relationship with an abuser has dire consequences such as job loss due to lack of concentration at work,absenteeism or a lack of promotion because one isolates themselves and ceases to be a team player.
  • Getting home from work on time is the first control method of an abuser.Every minute from work must be accounted for.

See any of these signs:SEEK HELP!Talk to your personal doctor.

Visit a Domestic Violence Center near you.

This causes emotional distress,will lead to mental and physical health problems.

 

 

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Charity Wairimu Ngugi Latz

Human Dignity Visionary.Warrior & Domestic Violence Awareness Activist . Speaker. Migrant Issues Author .Community Reporter.You Tube Blogger .Volunteer as a Member Mentor in Germany with Kenya Women in Germany and HausAfrika and in Kenya with AmkaKaka Youth initiative Kawangware.

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