Keeping Promises to yourself is a Habit you MUST Cultivate. I promised l would come up with some solution-oriented steps in handling a domestic violent and abusive relationship. It starts with the Self-Reflective Question.”What is MY Story?Do I want to Stay in the Content of MY Story?Do I want to be churned in the TURMOIL?”Every story has a beginning. The middle is where the main level is expressed in detail. The conclusion is the Realization: The…. What Next ?..When?..Why?.If you have been reading my Blog, we went into detail on the Red Flags of an abusive intimate partnership. (you can read to refresh). I helped you identify whether you are a victim of domestic violence. Naturally, if you are or have gone through the different stages: Denial,Unbelief,Blaming yourself, and then finally, Anger and then Acceptance . You Unmasked the Abuser .However, you were derailed by seeking so many solutions: “OTHER`S OPINIONS”.All the abusive facts are staring you in the eye and Your body is pleading with you to take action, begging that it can not take any more abuse.There was a flicker of hope,You encountered a light of hope, but you let others come spoil your liberation “Broth”.If this is you ;Do Not Worry,l have Not given up on you, so Do Not too. Confusion has set in ,let us get rid of it.
Return to your journaling.Re-read the blog articles.Be sincere to yourself.What value is this partner bringing into your well-being? Are they molding you or breaking you?DVA is all about Power and Control through abusive methods.Are you going to seek help in the proper places? You will be transported from point “Hell“ to Point “B”: a haven, safe house, a place where you can be counseled and meet others in a similar situation?THE CHOICE OF HOW YOU CONCLUDE YOUR STORY IS YOURS.
Seek Help by Typing in “Help?” Much Love and Hope that Today you can say
“ENOUGH Is ENOUGH!!!”
